Resource · Forces & Desires

What reading the struggling moment changes.

The six forces inside a buyer's switch tell you exactly what to build, fix, and say.

Most switching research stops at the finding. Forces get named, nobody assigns them to a decision, and the positioning is unchanged three weeks later.

6Forces
15Decisions
5Functions

This grid is the translation layer between them.

The struggling moment is not a seventh force. It's the container: the circumstance in which these six become active and the balance between them turns unstable. Forces explain why a buyer moves. The struggling moment explains when.

Pushes

The struggle with the current way that makes staying costly.

Pulls

What makes the new way feel possible and specifically attractive.

Desires

The progress the buyer is trying to make — who they're trying to become.

Avoidances

The downside they're steering around, often protected by staying put.

Habits / Allegiances

The routine that keeps the current way in place whether or not it's chosen, and the loyalties to a vendor, a person or a way of working that hold it there.

Anxieties

The fear about the new way — what could go wrong if they move.

GTM Strategy

Where and when we compete

ICP sharpening

Push

Push strength reveals which segments have the strongest reason to switch now.

Timing & triggers

Struggling moment

The triggering event tells you when the force balance becomes unstable — and therefore when a buyer becomes reachable.

Channel sequencing

Habits / Allegiances

Status quo gravity tells you what has to break before they'll listen.

Positioning

How we frame the choice

Competitive frame

Habits / AllegiancesAvoidances

The real alternative isn't a rival product; it's a habit that also protects them from a downside.

Reading Demand 02 → read the issue

Value narrative

PushDesires

Lead with the struggle and the aspiration, not features, to build the emotional case.

Risk framing

Avoidances

Avoidances define what your category promise must neutralize to win.

Messaging

What we say as the choice develops

Sequence by force

Push → Habits / Allegiances → Pull/Desire

Open on the struggle to earn receptivity, then weaken the habit, then amplify the destination.

Desire-led proof

DesiresPulls

Desires define the outcome language; Pulls define what they need to believe about you specifically.

Objection handling

AnxietiesAvoidances

Anxiety and Avoidance map directly to the objections your sales team hears.

Sales & Pricing

How the choice gets closed

Proof & POC design

PullsAnxieties

The pilot has to prove the capability is real and the failure mode is survivable — not just that the product works.

Pricing & packaging

AvoidancesDesires

Price against the downside they're steering around and the progress they're buying, not the feature list.

Product & Onboarding

How the new behavior sticks

First-run design

Habits / Allegiances

Habits are routines, not choices. The first session has to replace the ritual and win on defaults, not match features.

Reading Demand 04 → read the issue

Activation milestone

PullsDesires

Activation has to prove the capability is real and the progress is underway; if first value lands late, the old habit reasserts.

Pushes

3

Front of the journey

  • ICP sharpening
  • Value narrative
  • Sequence by force

Pulls

4

Mid to late

  • Sequence by force
  • Desire-led proof
  • Proof & POC design
  • Activation milestone

Desires

6

Widest count

  • Value narrative
  • Sequence by force
  • Desire-led proof
  • Pricing & packaging
  • Champion enablement
  • Activation milestone

Avoidances

5

Frame and risk

  • Competitive frame
  • Risk framing
  • Objection handling
  • Pricing & packaging
  • Re-switch risk

Habits / Allegiances

4

Widest spread

  • Channel sequencing
  • Competitive frame
  • Sequence by force
  • First-run design

Anxieties

4

Back half

  • Objection handling
  • Proof & POC design
  • Champion enablement
  • Re-switch risk

Counts exceed fifteen because most decisions are governed by two forces at once.

The dominant force changes by function. Push concentrates at the front of the journey and disappears after Messaging. Habits and allegiances are the widest, touching four functions and absent only from Sales. Anxieties is nearly absent from GTM and governs three of six Sales and Product decisions. That's why one research readout lands differently with four different teams — and why a shared translation layer is worth more than a shared deck.

The grid names the force. Your research sizes it.

Different switching situations carry different force profiles. The grid tells you which force governs a decision. How strong that force is for the situation you're selling into is a question only your own research answers.

Six interview guides, one per decision. Each has a free set of core questions, which is enough to run a real interview rather than a demonstration of one.

The six forces don't just explain why buyers switch. They tell you where to intervene across the entire switching journey.